9% of British men consider themselves handsome; a further 7% regard themselves as good-looking. By contrast, just 1% of British women describe themselves as beautiful and 2% as good-looking. (YouGov/The Times, 21 September 2019).
Epicurus would no doubt have commented that it is what is in the hearts and minds of men and women that matters, not their outward looks. This, for both genders, requires them to be polite, kind, attentive, gentle, thoughtful, generous and considerate of others. Oh, and to have a sense of humor.
As for this writer, he has never thought about it, really. To him all women are beautiful; some as just more beautiful than others.