It’s pretty clear where Jesus stands on cheating on your spouse: “Thou shalt not covet they neighbor’s wife”. In Mathew 5:27-30 he said that if you even look at another woman with desire, then you should cut out your eye, because it’s better to “lose one of your members than to have your whole body go to hell”.
Since the Ashley Madison scandal broke, right-wing American christians have continued to campaign against family planning, gays and abortion (which Jesus never mentioned) but are totally silent about Ashley Madison and adultery. Such people, it seems, pick their sins, as convenient. We in turn guess their motives, but are too polite to write them down.
Where might Epicurus have stood on this issue? I think he would have extended understanding and compassion to any man or woman trapped in an unhappy marriage and genuinely and desperately seeking love. We should seek a pleasant life. But I also think he would have little time for people making a quick buck out of prurient temptation, and it is prurient temptation that Ashley Madison and the multiplicity of porn websites offer.
