You have a choice. You can choose between an array of superstitions, or you can believe in a set of teachings that are rational and common sense. Modern humanism is one alternative, but  it is a little dry as a belief system, skirts round what happens after death, and is less forceful about friendship and ataraxia; there is nothing wrong with it  – it depends upon your upbringing and personal predilictions.

Epicureanism, on the other hand, offers a rational alternative to beliefs that should have been consigned to oblivion long ago, but which are still very powerful.  In some cases they are increasingly so, in response to recent attacks on religion ( self-defeating), to huge economic and social changes around the world, and to rapidly increasing inequality, corrupt government, and economic desperation.  It seems that the more we know about the universe and the world around us the more strident and determined are the religionists, especially in  some Moslem countries.

Human beings seem to desperately need belief in something bigger than themselves. Well, let them. Epicureanism is quiet, gentle and harmless, attacks no one, stays out of the way, does not get involved in politics (which in the US often means getting involved with religion), and doesn’t seek to take people’s money in return for telling them what to think. It is a refuge for those who are able to think for themselves, who want a quiet life with friends, and who do not want to take part in local tribal rituals.  It stands for peace of mind, friendship, respect and consideration for others, for politeness and seeking how best to get along with others.  It rejects bullying and crudeness, greed for money, indeed, greed for anything, and moderation in all things.  Some people need this refuge from a violent world.  We are all different. Epicureanism matters, but will never be more than a minority set of beliefs.  Join the small minority!