The following is my personal list of qualities needed for anyone, woman or man to be judged a good and civilized human being.  (There is no significance to the order in which they are listed):

Consideration for others

Empathy for the sick and old

Generosity with time and money, according to means

Critical thinking

Ethical behavior at all times

Belief in and support for social justice

Politeness to everyone

Altruism

Humility

Being a good listener

Care for the environment